If you are unable to speak openly to each other, you will stand a greater chance of experiencing disconnection when you don’t know how to productively deal with things that come up. Communication is to relationships like water is to plants. When you are truly friends, there is an inherent trust that you have each other’s backs. If prepared, you might not even feel a thing. So if you are preparing to get married, consider ways you can soften a fall from cloud nine. And hopefully, your relationship foundation is strong from the start, with emotionally safety and security to turn towards vs away from each other when in distress.Ĭouples who don’t have the tools at hand to successfully transition out of the honeymoon phase can struggle at this point. This is all expected and part of being human, by the way. The good, the bad, the ugly and the reality of who you with less of an ethereal sheen. As the gushing love bath faucet becomes a drip, you are left with your more realistic selves.
It’s called work, responsibilities, stress, kids, negotiations, emergencies and life in general. And it’s powerful!īut I need to gently break something to you… There is usually a fall from cloud nine. It serves a biological purpose to connect you and your partner. You and your fiance likely are “floating on cloud nine” thanks to the love chemical bath associated with the honeymoon phase. Planning a wedding? That’s exciting news and I bet you are light on your feet and full of the “warm and fuzzies” as you imagine the big day and future with your new spouse.
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